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Inthe sociologists Scott J. South and Katherine Trent set out to test the Guttentag-Secord theory by analyzing data from countries. Most aspects of the theory tested. In each country, more men meant more married women, less divorce, and fewer women in the workforce. South and Trent also found that the Guttentag-Secord dynamics were more pronounced in developed rather than developing countries.
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